Different Wedding Dress Codes Explained

What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you get a wedding invitation in the post? Apart from how happy you are for the bride and groom (obviously…)? Yep – you’re greeted with the age-old question: “What do I wear?”

We’ve all been there. Choosing what to wear to a wedding can be a very daunting task, especially when there’s so much to consider. Luckily for you, the team here at SilkFred are diving headfirst into the world of wedding dress codes. From casual chic to black tie glam, we’ve got all the style secrets you need to secure that best-dressed title.

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White Tie Weddings

Say hello to the older sister of black tie – white tie weddings. She’s got it all, and some serious authority. White tie is the most formal evening dress code in Western culture. If you’re attending a white tie wedding, here’s what you should consider wearing:

1. Full-Length Formal Gown: For a white tie wedding, go for a full-length, formal evening gown in a classic and elegant style.

2. Elegant Accessories: You can accessorise with jewellery, such as pearls or diamonds, and wear a small clutch purse.

3. Hair and Makeup: Consider an updo or an elegant hairstyle, and makeup should be understated and classic.

4. Heels: Choose formal, closed-toe high heels or dressy flats.

It’s important to note that the white tie dress code is reserved for the most formal occasions, so dressing in accordance with it is a sign of respect for the couple and the event. So if you’re loved ones have chosen this dress code then it’s only right to show up in the proper attire. Plus, it’s fun to dress up! Have fun fancy pants.

Black Tie Wedding

Slightly less formal than white tie, the black tie wedding dress code still calls for elegant and formal attire. It’s more about looking polished and put together. Though it’s a step below white tie in terms of formality, it still calls for elegance. Here are some guidelines for what to wear:

1. Floor-Length Evening Gown: Why not opt for a floor-length evening gown? A classic black dress is a safe choice, but you can also choose gowns in other dark, rich colours like deep red, navy, or emerald green.

2. Stylish Accessories: Complement your gown with tasteful accessories. This can include statement jewellery, such as a necklace or earrings, and a clutch purse that matches or complements your outfit.

3. Hair and Makeup: Consider a polished hairstyle, such as an updo or sleek waves. It’s fun to emphasise your make up at these types of events, either honing in on the eyes or the lips.

4. Closed-Toe Heels: Wear high heels or dressy closed-toe shoes that match your gown.

5. Shawl or Evening Wrap: Depending on the weather and the season, consider bringing a shawl or an elegant evening wrap in case it gets chilly.

6. Follow the Venue’s Guidelines: Some black tie weddings may have specific themes or venue requirements. Make sure to check with the couple or the invitation for any additional pointers.

Formal or Black-Tie Optional

This category allows for little more flexibility, depending on how fancy you feel. A “black tie optional” dress code for weddings provides guests with a choice between wearing traditional black tie attire or a slightly less formal outfit. We suggest thinking about the venue and, most importantly, the vibe.

Option 1: For Traditional Black Tie Attire See Above

Option 2: Less Formal but Still Dressy

1. Cocktail Dress: Instead of a full-length gown, consider a knee-length cocktail dress, or a maxi-length dress.

2. Accessories: Accessorise appropriately with matching jewellery and a clutch purse.

3. Hair and Makeup: An up do is a great way to still adhere to the more formal side of things, but your make up can be slightly less formal than the traditional black tie option. Why not add a pop of colour on your lids or a bright lip?

4. Shoes: Wear dressy heels, pumps, or sandals that match your dress. Avoid overly casual footwear (put the trainers down). 

Semi-Formal Wedding Attire

Here we have the middle ground – a semi-formal wedding dress code falls nicely between casual and formal attire. It’s typically chosen for afternoon or early evening weddings. Here are some pointers on what to wear to a semi-formal wedding:

1. Cocktail Dress: A knee-length or tea-length cocktail dress is a classic choice for a semi-formal wedding. Why not opt for a unique design or a classic floral print?

2. Dress Fabric: Choose dresses made from fabrics like chiffon, silk, satin, or lace. These materials lend an air of sophistication and make you feel dreamy.

3. Colour: Semi-formal dresses come in various colours, but we’d steer away of from white or ivory (duh). Nobody wants to take away from the beautiful bride! Darker colours like navy, burgundy, emerald green, or deep red are great options.

4. Accessories: Accessorise your dress with a pop of jewellery, such as statement earrings or a necklace. Try to keep it understated and let your dress shine.

5. Shoes: Wear dressy heels, pumps, or sandals that match your dress.

6. Outerwear: Depending on the weather, you may want to bring a light jacket, shawl, or cardigan.

Festive

It’s not just the cast of Eastenders who love a Christmas wedding. Festive weddings usually coincide with other wonderful celebrations, like New Year, Diwali or the summer solstice. However, it’s essential to strike the right balance between festive and respectful, depending on the wedding’s specific requirements and cultural norms. You don’t need to be adorned with tinsel and fairy lights to celebrate…

Here are some general tips for wedding attire at a festive wedding:

1. Colourful and Vibrant Dresses: Choose dresses in bright, cheerful colours or patterns that reflect the celebratory mood of the event. Pastels, floral prints, or bold hues have a thumbs up from us.

2. Dress Style: Opt for dresses that are comfortable for dancing up a storm. A midi or knee-length dress can be a versatile option, but maxi dresses can also work if they suit the overall vibe of the wedding.

3. Accessories: Embrace playful and colourful accessories, such as statement jewellery, scarves, or belts. Add a festive touch with tassels or a pendant.

4. Footwear: Consider comfortable yet stylish footwear, such as wedges, block-heeled sandals, or stylish flats. Festive weddings often involve dancing, so choose shoes that allow you to bust some moves.

5. Avoid Overly Formal Attire: Festive weddings typically lean toward a more relaxed atmosphere, so avoid overly formal gowns or cocktail dresses unless the invitation specifies otherwise.

It’s essential to strike a balance between celebrating the joyous occasion and showing respect for the couple and their wedding style. If you’re unsure about the dress code or theme, don’t hesitate to reach out to the couple for guidance. Ultimately, the goal is to enjoy the festivities while looking appropriately festive and stylish.

Casual

Did somebody say casual? Here we have the easiest category to smash. A casual wedding dress code calls for relaxed and comfortable outfits. Here are some tips for casual wedding attire:

1. Dress or Skirt and Blouse: A simple dress or a skirt paired with a blouse can be a great choice. A breezy jumpsuit is another way to rock the one-and-done vibe. Choose light and breathable fabrics for warm weather and opt for longer sleeves or layers for cooler seasons.

2. Casual Dresses: Sundresses, wrap dresses, or A-line dresses in relaxed prints and colours are great for celebrations like this.

3. Casual Footwear: Comfortable footwear is key for a casual wedding. Sandals, flat shoes, or wedges can work well, especially if the event is outdoors. This is a great excuse to ditch the heels…

4. Light Jewellery: You don’t need to go all out with accessories. Opt for understated jewellery, such as small earrings, a delicate necklace, or a bracelet.

5. Weather Considerations: Consider the season and weather when selecting your outfit. Bring a light cardigan or shawl for cooler evenings or outdoor events – nothing kills the vibe like shivering guests.

6. Avoid Jeans and T-Shirts: While the dress code is casual, we’re not saying opt for jeans and a nice tee. That’s taking it a bit too far. Avoid overly casual clothes, unless specifically mentioned in the invitation.

7. Comfort: Choose an outfit that allows you to move comfortably and enjoy the celebration without feeling restricted. Comfort is key!

Destination

Grab your carry-on bag, a wedding abroad is calling your name! A destination wedding combines all the excitement of a wedding with the happy holiday feels – it’s a win-win. As for the dress code, it’s really up to the bride and groom and where they choose to get married. What to wear to a destination wedding can be different depending on the destination. Here are some general tips:

1. Research the Location: Start by researching the destination’s climate and culture. This will help you choose appropriate attire that’s both comfortable and respectful of the local customs.

2. Beach Destination: If the wedding is at a beach or tropical location, consider light and airy clothing. A sundress, maxi dress, or a flowy skirt paired with a blouse can work well. Beachy prints and pastel colours are a great way to get into the groove.

3. Outdoor Venue: For weddings in outdoor settings, such as gardens or vineyards, opt for a dress that suits the surroundings. A floral dress or a light-coloured dress are a nice way of nodding to the surroundings.

4. Cocktail Dress: If the wedding has a semi-formal or cocktail dress code, consider a knee-length or tea-length cocktail dress in a vibrant or tropical print. We suggest comfortable heels or wedges.

5. Footwear: Depending on the venue, choose comfortable footwear like sandals, espadrilles, or wedges for beach weddings. For more formal outdoor venues, closed-toe shoes are a better choice.

6. Accessories: You can have fun in the sun with your bling. Sun hats, sunglasses, and beachy jewellery will help add a touch of holiday glam.

7. Travel-Friendly Attire: Choose outfits that travel well and are easy to pack, especially if you’re flying to the destination.

8. Check the Invitation: The wedding invitation or communication from the couple may provide specific dress code guidelines or recommendations. Make sure you don’t miss a trick.