Ah, destination weddings. We all dream of walking down a white sandy aisle and exchanging vows as sparkling turquoise waves gently roll in before the guests – but only a few turn that fantasy into a reality.
So, you’ve got a destination wedding in the diary? Lucky you. You’ve RSVP’d with glee, booked your flights and confirmed accommodation, but what next? Choosing what to wear, of course! Deciding what to wear to a wedding abroad can be a tricky task for the unseasoned pro; you need to consider factors such as the wedding location, venue, dress code and climate, too.
Fear not, because we know a thing or two about dressing to impress at summer weddings. Here, the SilkFred team has pulled together a handy guide on what to wear to a wedding abroad as a female guest. Packed full of useful advice on the best lightweight materials, fits and shapes, and handy tips and tricks to take with you, you’ll be claiming your prize for ‘Best-dressed Guest’ in no time…
If you’d like to jump ahead to an edit, check out our wedding guest dresses, wedding guest jumpsuits, or wedding guest shoes, to get some inspiration for your next wedding abroad.
Five Tips For Dressing For A Wedding Abroad
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Location, location, location: The most important thing to consider when choosing your wedding guest outfit is the venue. You must co-ord your fit with the location, not just to match the vibe (a must) but also for practicality. Is the ceremony due to be hosted on a beach, in a city, or in a castle?! For beach weddings, you may prefer a lightweight dress that’s loose and flowy. For a city wedding, you might want something with a little more structure, that’s metropolitan and chic. If it’s a castle wedding, then a formal, floor-length dress is just the ticket.
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Don’t get hot under the collar: Let’s face it, most brides and grooms-to-be choose a destination wedding for a hotter climate. If it’s humid, it’s a good idea to choose a natural, breathable fabric, like cotton or linen. Details like a leg split or a loose-fitting tiered skirt can help to keep you cool, whilst looking it too.
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Dopamine dressing: Don’t be afraid to inject some colour! A summer wedding abroad is the perfect opportunity to show off your personality through your clothes. Bright shades and bold prints are ideal for a beach wedding, for instance. If it’s a formal wedding, you could opt for a jewel tone like emerald green or sapphire blue for ultimate decadence.
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It’s all in the details: An outfit isn’t complete without accessories, darling! Think about your bag, shoes, jewellery and how you’re styling your hair to complete the look. Remember, they should complement rather than overpower your outfit.
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Girls just wanna have fun: Remember, attending a wedding abroad is an adventure – so you should reflect this in your wardrobe. Why not experiment with your outfit with brighter colours than you normally would? Or pick a statement print that wows your friends. The most important thing is feeling comfy and confident.
For Beach Weddings
Going to a beach wedding, babe? Lucky you! The first thing you need to think about here is fabrics. Opting for something lightweight and loose, like cotton, silk or linen, will help you beat the heat. Colourwise, we’d suggest anything from cool creams and pretty pale pink hues to bold, tropical prints – just make sure to avoid dark browns, black or navy, which tend to absorb the sun rays quicker.
The best part about choosing a bold print for a beach wedding dress is that you need minimal accessories. Of course, a fun clutch bag or shoes wouldn’t go a miss. If it’s going to be super sunny, you might want to think about a stylish floppy hat or sunnies, for an element of chicness.
Consider your footwear carefully too. We’d recommend steering clear from heels (especially stilettos) if you’re going to be on a beach. Instead, slide into some strappy sandals and you’ll minimise any chance of toppling over down the aisle – plus you’ll be able to hit the dance floor for even longer in flats!
For City Weddings
Wedding in a European city where the weather will be mild, but not hot? We’ve got you covered. Midi wrap dresses are a match made in heaven when it comes to city weddings. Not too long, not too short, and super easy to throw on. If the climate is due to be cooler, why not opt for something with long sleeves, and a cinched waist – this is perfect for a city church wedding, where you need a little more coverage, too.
For Day Ceremonies
It’s time to think bold. A day ceremony in summer offers the perfect opportunity to experiment with a bright pattern or print. Think feminine florals, sophisticated spots or amazing animal prints – you name it, there’s a print out there to suit everyone.
Plus, the best part about choosing a patterned wedding guest dress is that you need very minimal, neutral accessories. So go ahead – say yes to the print dress!
For Non-Traditional Weddings
Dresses not your vibe? No problem. Introducing the ultimate way to look effortlessly chic: the iconic jumpsuit. These versatile all-in-ones can be dressed up in just a few simple accessories, and what’s more, they’re super comfy – so you can eat, drink and be merry in total comfort!
We’d style a jumpsuit with block heels or stilettos, for that extra leg-lengthening height. If you’re opting for a print jumpsuit, we’d recommend simple, barely-there accessories and let the pattern do the talking. If your jumpsuit is a block colour, then go for one statement piece of jewellery like a chunky necklace or dangly earrings.
For Long Haul Weddings
Jetting off somewhere tropical? It’s time to lean into that theme. Bright colours, palm prints and cut-outs are perfect pairings for long-haul weddings. Why not pick a yellow print? It’s like wearing sunshine!
Wondering what colour is best for you? Check out our blog on what colour to wear to a wedding.
If you’re heading for the heat, we’d recommend accessories such as a wicker clutch, and wedge heels or woven sandals for tropical terrains. Don’t forget to have fun with your styling – introduce sunglasses or a fan into your fit, so you can stay cool whilst looking ever-so-glamorous.
For Evening Ceremonies
Night owls rejoice! Evening weddings abroad are so much fun to plan for. Temperatures are usually lower, so you have more choice on the cut and style. We’d recommend a loose-flowing maxi dress or a cute, cutout mini dress. Just check what the wedding dress code is.
Unsure what the wedding dress code is? Check out SilkFred’s handy guide on different wedding dress codes explained.
Colour-wise, we’d suggest choosing a bright colour that will compliment your tan, like fuchsia, turquoise or orange. You’re on holiday after all! Clashing colours are all the rage at the moment too, so why not opt for a contrasting shoe and bag? For example, pink and green are a stunning colour combo, so why not add some bold green heels and a matching clutch to pair with a bright, fuchsia dress?
For Black Tie Weddings Abroad
Want to make an impression at your fancy friend’s wedding? Get ready to channel your inner Bridgerton ego. The black-tie dress code requires a formal, floor-length dress. But maxi dresses needn’t be dull; there are endless options that can show off your personality, from backless designs to plunge necklines or embellished details.
To elevate your look, we’d recommend pairing your gown with some elegant drop earrings, sophisticated strappy heels and a black or metallic clutch to finish. Just divine!
Take a look at our full collection of maxi wedding guest dresses for your black tie wedding.